We’re Getting Married!

Kyle & Xavier

ITALY | MAY 25, 2025

Ceremony & Reception

4:00 PM

May 25, 2025

Tenuta Monacelle
Monopoli, Italy

Map

After ‘Party’

May 26 - June 2

You are welcome to join us for a week-long stay in a variety of Italian villas near
Ostuni, where we got engaged.

Making it out to Italy.

So, a gay couple you know is asking you to shell out for a destination wedding. Now what?

We are committed to making our wedding an opportunity for our guests to get the Italian get-away they’ve always dreamed of. We’ll be here to help you through every step of the process. A bit of planning and we’ll make it happen!

General Questions

  • Absolutely not. We are adamant that all of our guests feel comfortable declining our invitation. Your RSVP does not reflect how you feel about us, and it won’t reflect how we feel about you. You have been invited because you are a part of our family. And family isn’t about plane tickets or dressing up, it’s about love. We would love to have you, but if for whatever reason you can’t make it, we understand completely.

  • Italy is special to us for a few reasons. Kyle spent a few years teaching there and Xavier is currently seeking his Italian citizenship through his family. This is where we first got engaged, and where we’d like to spend time in the future — and maybe even retire!

  • We ask that our guests RSVP to our event no later than DATE.

  • No. Getting out to Italy is no small feat (or small amount of money). We understand how generous you are being by committing to this event, YOU are our gift!

  • Yes, we request that you purchase your own flight to Bari.

Join Us

We hope you can make it!