We’re Getting Married!

Puglia, Italy

May 25, 2025

So, a gay couple you know is asking you to shell out for a destination wedding. Now what?

We are so excited to spend this special day with all of you, our friends & family. We’re looking to make this experience an opportunity for us all to connect, celebrate, and enjoy time in Italy. It is important to us that this time is low pressure and free of obligation. It’s a long way for most of you, so we understand if you can’t make it.

The Wedding

The wedding will be hosted at Tenuta Monacelle, a resort in Puglia, Italy. The ceremony will be held on Sunday, May 25 at 4:00p followed by cocktails and dinner.

A block of rooms will be available for guests to stay Saturday night, May 24 and Sunday night, May 25 at a rate of €150 a night.

We recommend that guests arrive Saturday, May 24 to accommodate for jet lag and potential travel interruptions.

After the Wedding

In your RSVP, please indicate which of these three post-wedding options you are interested in and the grooms will use the information to coordinate post-wedding plans.

  • Villa Stay

    Following the wedding, the party will continue in multiple villas in Puglia. Guests are welcome to stay in communal villas for sun, food, and adventures from May 26 to June 2. Specific villas and cost will are to be determined, depending on guest interest. Target accommodation cost is $750 or less, per person, for one week.

  • Resort Stay

    Let it ride! If you would like to continue your stay in Puglia at the resort we will connect you with the resort’s concierge or you can book directly on Tenuta’s website.

  • Go Your Own Way

    Using the wedding to kick off your own European adventure? Let us know if you are going your own way after the wedding.

Need more information before you RSVP? Find more details about travel, the venue, getting around, FAQs and more on the details page.